Dear GC,
I’m 27 and I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for 2 years now. He was very good to me when we first met, a very kind and responsible guy.
If I’m honest I wasn’t really in love with him when we first met but as we moved on I fell deeply in love with him. All that changed after 1 year and I couldn’t ignore that it was obvious he was cheating on me.
I feel really hurt because it does not feel like he loves me the way he used to and he doesn’t seem to have time for me. The worse part is I’ve even caught him with a woman in his room before but when I confronted him about it, he told me that I’m the only woman he loves and because I love him so much I stayed.
It really feels like I’ve been in hell for a year now but because of how I feel about him and he knows this, I don’t know what to do. The worst part of it all is, his family love me very much and they have even expressed their wishes for me to marry him.
As it stands right now I have not heard from him in a month, yet his family want us to get married.
I’m confused and don’t know what to do, should I go ahead with the marriage because of his family? I don’t think he still loves me but I do still love him.
Please GC help me out.
From R.
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Dear R,
In an ideal world we’d have the man of our dreams and his family would adore us the way your boyfriend’s family do.
If your situation was the other way round and you had a bad relationship with the family but a great relationship with your man then of course it would be hard but it would still work and it would be worth the fight.
However having your guys family on your side is not enough to make your relationship work. You may be hoping that going along with their wishes will make your man see sense but it really won’t.
The same way his family could never tell him to marry you and him listen is the same way they can’t make him want to do right by you and marry and and start treating you the way he is supposed to treat you. I’m sure you already know this deep down but the only thing I see here is an escape route!
Even if your man agrees with his family and marries you, the fact that you have caught him with his hand ‘in the cookie jar’ cheating means he will probably continue to do this in your marriage because you accepted it in the past and this would be heartbreaking for you.
You have the chance to take your leave and be ready to meet a man who will stop breathing before he lets a month go by without seeing you! Don’t miss out on having a man that will love and respect you and marry you with or without his family’s adoration.
Hope this helps!
Regards,
SassyChic!
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